September: A Common Month to File for Divorce — Here’s How to Prepare Before You File

Written By Nanette Murphy

Knowledge IS Power

September often brings more than just the change of seasons. For many, it’s a time of reflection, decisions, and — for some — the decision to file for divorce. Research and legal professionals note that September typically sees a spike in divorce filings. Perhaps it’s the end of summer vacations, kids returning to school, or the sense of “starting fresh” before the year ends. Whatever the reason, if divorce is on your horizon, preparation is everything.

Why Preparation Matters

Filing for divorce isn’t just a legal process — it’s an emotional, financial, and logistical journey. Jumping into it without the right tools, mindset, and support can leave you feeling overwhelmed and unprepared. Whether your decision has been months in the making or you’ve recently reached a breaking point, taking the time to prepare before filing can make a significant difference in your outcome.

Knowledge Is Power

The very first step is gathering information. Before you begin looking for an attorney, consider booking a consultation call with a divorce coach. A coach can walk you through:

  • What documents do you need to gather

  • How to prepare financially

  • How to protect your emotional well-being during the process

  • Key questions to ask an attorney when the time comes

  • What to expect in the early stages of divorce

Having a clear roadmap before you step into an attorney’s office not only saves time and money but also puts you in a position of strength.

The Emotional Toll Is Real

Divorce is one of life’s most stressful transitions. Beyond the legal side, the emotional strain can cloud judgment and lead to costly mistakes. A divorce coach serves as your lifeline — someone who’s on your side, helping you manage emotions, clarify your goals, and make decisions from a place of stability rather than reaction.

Why a Divorce Coach First?

Think of a divorce coach as your first line of support. Attorneys handle legal strategy. Coaches hold you — your mindset, preparation, and clarity. Many people skip this step and head straight to an attorney, only to realize later they weren’t fully ready emotionally or financially. Meeting with a coach first helps you:

  • Get organized so you don’t waste attorney hours on non-legal prep

  • Stay grounded when emotions run high

  • Feel confident and informed every step of the way

You Have Nothing to Lose — and Everything to Gain

The best part?

A consultation call with a divorce coach is often the most cost-effective and impactful step you can take in the early stages of your divorce. You’ll walk away with clarity, confidence, and a plan.

If September is your month to start this next chapter, don’t go it alone.

Let’s prepare together — your future self will thank you.


Nanette Murphy

I help women heal, reclaim their power and step boldly into a new life.

To assist them as they navigate this transition;turning this challenging time into an opportunity so they can experience growth and empowerment.

As a Life Reinvention Coach for Divorced Women, I provide something beyond traditional therapy, and it’s the support most divorced women desperately need. Divorce can shatter your sense of self, leaving you feeling disconnected, doubting your worth, and uncertain about your future. Many women attempt to push through on their own, often relying solely on willpower and sheer determination. But without true healing and the right guidance, they fall into familiar traps, repeating patterns and feeling stuck, only to end up right back where they started.

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