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Why Every Woman Needs a Divorce Coach and the Right Team

Divorce is one of the most emotionally and financially complex transitions a woman can face, especially if it’s happening after decades of marriage. Whether you’re contemplating it, in the middle of it, or navigating life after it, there’s one truth that remains constant:

You don’t have to go through this alone.

Too often, women are overwhelmed by the divorce process, not just emotionally, but logistically. Legal documents, financial disclosures, asset division, and custody negotiations… it’s no wonder many feel paralyzed. But here’s the good news: you have options.

And more importantly, you have a team available to support you.

Start with a Divorce Coach

A divorce coach isn’t just someone who understands the process—they understand you. As a certified divorce coach, I work with women every day who feel like they’re drowning in uncertainty. Together, we create a plan, talk through decisions, and focus on emotional healing while staying grounded in clarity.

You wouldn’t climb a mountain without a guide. Why approach divorce any differently?

Your coach is your thinking partner—helping you reduce conflict, communicate more effectively, and make confident decisions during an emotionally charged time.

Don’t Skip the Numbers—Work with a CDFA

Divorce is as much a financial negotiation as it is an emotional one. That’s why it’s crucial to work with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) who specializes in helping women understand the long-term impact of financial decisions made during divorce.

A CDFA can help you:

  • Evaluate settlement proposals

  • Understand tax implications

  • Strategically divide assets and debts

  • Create a post-divorce financial roadmap

Talk to a Divorce Mortgage Lender

If keeping the marital home is important to you, a divorce mortgage planner can assess whether it’s financially feasible. They’ll help you understand:

  • How to refinance in your name

  • What mortgage terms work best for your new budget

  • If downsizing is the better move

This step is often overlooked—but it can make or break your financial foundation moving forward.

Choose an Attorney Who Listens

Yes, you’ll need a good divorce attorney. But here’s the key: choose one who supports your decision to build a team. A great attorney won’t try to do everything themselves. They’ll encourage you to seek out a coach, a CDFA, a mortgage advisor, and even a therapist.

Also important? Don’t use your attorney for emotional support. It’s expensive and often not helpful. Save the emotional processing for your coach or therapist—that’s what they’re there for.

Knowledge + Preparation = Power

Divorce may feel like it’s happening to you, but with the proper support, you can take control of the process and steer it in a direction that protects your future. Educating yourself, assembling your team, and seeking guidance isn’t a weakness—it’s a sign of wisdom.

You deserve support. I think you deserve clarity. And you deserve to walk through this transition with people by your side who have your back—personally, legally, and financially.

Divorce is just one chapter

Let’s make sure you write the next one on your terms.

Find me at www.livelifenowwithpurposee.com


Nanette Murphy

I help women heal, reclaim their power and step boldly into a new life.

To assist them as they navigate this transition;turning this challenging time into an opportunity so they can experience growth and empowerment.

As a Life Reinvention Coach for Divorced Women, I provide something beyond traditional therapy, and it’s the support most divorced women desperately need. Divorce can shatter your sense of self, leaving you feeling disconnected, doubting your worth, and uncertain about your future. Many women attempt to push through on their own, often relying solely on willpower and sheer determination. But without true healing and the right guidance, they fall into familiar traps, repeating patterns and feeling stuck, only to end up right back where they started.

https://www.livelifenowwithpurpose.com
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